• Monday Musings-

    Every other Sunday is therapy day.  Things are fairly busy in our world, but I’m really trying to make it a priority to be fully present for my sessions. Even if it’s in a hotel room,  while my husband is downstairs at breakfast… lol.  My psychiatrist told me that the…

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  • Over the years, I’ve had a very wide range of vices.  Obessions?  Hobbies?  Let’s go with VOH’s (vices/obsessions/hobbies).  This primarily presents as collections of things that I like to spend money on.  (we’ll discuss the “spending money” issue another time, thankyouverymuch).  At one point in my life, it was shoes.  I had the most beautiful collection of heels…

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  • Moments of… ?

    So.  Admittedly, I’m quite early in my current journey through my own mental health work.  I’ve been in and out of therapy for decades.  (My parents were BOTH social workers.  It explains SO much. Lol) My current attempt at therapy is a much more realistic, holistic focus; and is looking so very different than my past “therapy drive-bys”.   I’m currently trying to figure out…

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Hi-sies and welcome!

Your author is fresh into her 5th decade.  She is on a journey of self-discovery, self-improvement and ….  wait, wait, wait.  Sheesh.  She’s a hot mess, folks.  She sure tries, though.  She has both mid- and young adult children; some attempting to launch, others fully established. She’s working on her fitness (fergie-ferg!) and trying to figure out who the hell she is at this point in her life.  None of her people really need taking care of these days… So, she’s been left to attempt to figure out how to take care of herself. And it’s messy, folks.   She’s medicated.  She’s menopausal. And you have a formal invitation to the whole fucking mess.   

Be prepared for foul language, random musical lyrics, obscure movie references and fairly ridiculous jokes.   

(did I write this intro in the third person?  Yes, yes,  I did.  Why, you may ask innocently?  Who the eff knows.  LOL.  Sometimes I think I’m cute. ) 

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